The story of how this road began and our ask for help from the public to make a dream come true for Kacey. How we ended up in Florida at Moffitt Cancer Center from Maryland. Kacey literally wouldn't even pay attention to me because he was so engrossed in the practice. Adapting the daily rhythm with tools that don't compromise on beauty. Nourishing the journey with intentionality and curated daily essentials. Creating a space of intention as a foundation for navigating new paths. Beginning Stages & Introduction More detail and clarification on the weekend that Kacey's symptoms started. Kacey's mobility and physical progression from August to October. Pre-football game. Designing spaces that allow for intentional movement through daily nature. Engaging with the world at large through a lens of curated sophistication. Finding moments of quiet beauty to anchor the day's resilient actions. Selecting materials that reflect the sophistication of this intentional journey. Kacey's Journey Answering more questions and providing more clarification. Our public ask for help was answered and Kacey got to attend the pre-game practice for the 49ers. Top ten weekend for both of us. The importance of tactile comfort as a foundation for daily resilience. The importance of documentation as a tool for intentional transition. The literal and metaphorical motion of moving through change with grace. The quiet grit of reflecting on the journey before moving into the next transition. Kacey's Recent Journeys & Daily Life 04/21/2026 Carefully curated tools that make a life well-lived truly possible. A curated resource hub for those seeking meaning in the everyday. Advocating for a life curated with purpose and unwavering resilience. Tools that don’t just facilitate movement, but define a resilient life. Running the play together with real-time support and filtered community grit. Marking milestones of resilience and transitions with unyielding purpose. Finding grit and style in every step of the journey forward. Daily vlogs capturing the beauty of a transitions-focused life well-lived. Science-backed essentials for making intentional everyday living a reality. Moving forward through external and internal landscapes with unwavering grit. Honest recommendations for artisanal beauty that complements a resilient journey. Evening reflections on navigating life transitions with artisanal style. Lessons learned in resilience while navigating life’s most difficult turns. Redefining mobility through intentional design and personal grit. Capturing the quiet strength found in morning intentionality and journal rituals. Curation of the beautiful essentials for navigating life’s most difficult paths. Envisioning future aspirations with the same intentionality we bring each day. Closing the loop on intentional journey notes and resilient daily living. Caregiver Things When you become your spouses caregiver, nothing else seems to matter more than protecting both of your peace. Using the Rollz for the first time Answering questions about the Rollz Motion Electric The transition from caregiver with a POA to full blown, legal guardianship. One caregiver essential we always have on hand, whether it be at the house, in our bags, or at the hospital. Navigating being a caregiver while having full blown ADHD is absolutely wild. Do not recommend. Waking up with headaches with Glioblastoma? Try this easy sleeping hack. Becoming a caregiver has made me purchase things I never thought I would need to in a million years. These are 2 staples for us. Rehabilitation bags or "activity bags" we use to help Kacey rehab at home The clarity of morning light in a home built on intentionality. NOT MEDICAL ADVICE. Just something to ask your medical team about A curated look at the objects that make a well-lived life possible. Raw and unfiltered reflections on the grit required for this journey. Demonstrating mobility tools that provide freedom and autonomy. Setting the tone with sophisticated textures and intentional lighting. Knowledge shared is resilience doubled in our life transitions. Finding the intersection between daily focus and simple beauty. Practical details of mobility-enhancing tech that change the game. Support systems that keep us moving forward with resilience. Curating the essential resources for an intentional journey. A sign-off from a journey built on intentional daily choices.

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The Caregiving Toolkit Rollz Motion Electric 3 in 1 The Rollz Motion Electric is an electric wheelchair and rollator walker combo, that allows to drive the wheelchair independently with a joystick. Use code SUNDAY10 for 10% discount. Shop on Rollz Accessibility Toilet Safety Rail This standalone rail is a non-negotiable safety tool in our home. We use two of these to provide Kacey with a secure, stable grip and the leverage needed to sit and stand with confidence. Shop on Amazon Infusion Accessibility Jacket Zippered sleeve jacket is a life saver on infusion treamtment days, allowing access to IVs and ports. It keeps Kacey warm during long treatments while giving the medical team effortless access. Shop on Amazon Explore Kacey's Essentials Amazon Lists Therapy Aids Practical tools and accessories designed to make moving through the world a little easier every day from PT to OT, to speech therapy. View Therapy Aids List Curated for Comfort Some of our most favorite clothing items for Kacey, making life and accessibility easier in every situation. View Clothing List Everyday Essentials From shower bars to vegan protein, these are items we use in our everyday life View Everyday Essentials List Affiliate Disclosure & Transparency The Sunday Reserve Co. is built on authentic sharing and insightful storytelling. To support our mission, we participate in affiliate marketing programs. This means that some of the links on this site—including product highlights from Danielle’s beauty collection and Kacey’s caregiving essentials on Amazon Storefronts or other external websites—may earn us a small commission if you make a purchase through them. These commissions come at no extra cost to you and help us continue generating lifestyle updates, vlog content, and helpful resources for our community.

The Playbook. Strategic resources for navigating life's toughest transitions. From the opening drive of being diagnosed to the long-term game plan, this is your guide to managing a diagnosis with grit, grace, a lot of f-bombs, and science-backed intention. Chapter 1: The Opening drive (Initial Diagnosis) The Opening Drive Chapter 2: The Scouting Report (Research & Advocacy) The Scouting Report Chapter 3: The Special Teams ( Support & Logistics) The Special Teams Chapter 4: The Equipment Room (The Toolbelt) The Equipment Room The Legal Scouting Report I learned this the hard way: in the military medical system, there is no 'gray area.' If a service member is cognitively unable to make clear decisions for the Med Board process, a Power of Attorney—even a Durable one—will not be enough. You WILL be required to obtain court-ordered Guardianship to sign legal documents and navigate the IDES process on their behalf. I had three separate POAs (General, Special/Fill-in, and Medical) to cover every possible base, and they were still rejected. There is no way to avoid this; start the conversation with legal early. A Note on Restrictions: While laws differ by state, be prepared for heavy restrictions. If you are appointed as Guardian of Property (not just Person), your authority over finances and assets is closely monitored by the court, often requiring detailed annual accounting and prior approval for any major financial moves. The Play: Securing Legal Authority Power of Attorney vs. Guardianship: The Breakdown For active-duty families, understanding the difference is about delegation vs. absolute authority. Power of Attorney (POA): A voluntary document where a competent person (the principal) appoints an agent to act on their behalf. Durable POA: This is the specific type needed, as it stays in effect even if the patient becomes incapacitated. Autonomy: The patient retains their rights and can revoke the POA at any time as long as they have capacity. Guardianship: A court-appointed role used when a person is already deemed legally incapacitated and can no longer sign a POA. Court Mandated: Unlike a POA, guardianship removes the ward's legal rights to make their own decisions. The Med Board Factor: If a service member is cognitively unable to make clear decisions, a court-ordered guardianship is often required to navigate the Integrated Disability Evaluation System (IDES) and sign off on permanent records. Restoration Roadmap: Lowering or Removing Guardianship One of the most important things to remember is that guardianship is not always permanent. Because Florida law (where I am located) favors the 'least restrictive alternative,' the court can adjust your level of authority as the patient’s condition changes. 'Lowering' the Guardianship: If the patient regains some capacity—perhaps after rehabilitation or stabilizing—you can petition the court to modify the guardianship. This is often called moving from a Plenary (full) to a Limited guardianship. For example, they might regain the right to make their own personal decisions while you remain the guardian of their property. Full Removal (Restoration of Capacity): Terminating a guardianship entirely is a much higher bar. To get rights fully restored, you must file a 'Suggestion of Capacity' with the court. The Burden of Proof: Getting removed is complex because you are essentially asking the court to 'un-declare' someone incapacitated. In Florida, the court will immediately appoint at least one independent physician to examine the ward and file a report on their mental and physical cognition. You will need credible, admissible medical evidence to prove they can safely handle their own affairs again. Caregiver Compensation for Active Duty The Play: SCAADL If you are currently caregiving for an active-duty spouse and performing the majority of their Activities of Daily Living (ADL) tasks—like bathing, dressing, eating, or constant supervision for safety—you may qualify for Special Compensation for Assistance with Activities of Daily Living (SCAADL). This is a monthly, taxable stipend paid directly to the service member to help offset the loss of income for their primary caregiver. You must be in an outpatient status to qualify, and a physician must certify the level of care required. Branch-Specific Resources: Army Recovery Care Program (ARCP): Call 1-800-984-8523 or contact your Army Recovery Care Coordinator. Navy Wounded Warrior: Email navywoundedwarrior@navy.mil or call 1-855-628-9997. Air Force Wounded Warrior Program (AFW2): Contact your Air Force Recovery Care Coordinator for guidance. Marine Corps Wounded Warrior Regiment: Reach out to your Marine Recovery Care Coordinator or Case Manager. Learn More Learn More Learn More Learn More The Military Scouting Report THE PLAY: VA BURN PIT REGISTRY Documentation is a secondary weapon. This is how veteran families protect their future benefits by recording toxic exposures today. The Airborne Hazards Registry: If you served in Southwest Asia or Afghanistan, your mission is to get on the VA Burn Pit Registry . It’s not a claim, but it is official evidence of your exposure to smoke, dust, and pollution. Free Environmental Health Evaluations: Once enrolled, you can obtain a no-cost medical evaluation from a VA.gov or DoD provider to discuss how these exposures are impacting your health. Presumptive Evidence: Participation helps the VA track long-term health trends, ensuring that conditions related to toxic exposure are recognized and covered for the entire veteran community. 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Play 2 Play 2: The First 48-Hour Checklist Strategic moves to make before the first specialist appointment. 01 / Designate a "Point Person" You cannot answer 50 "How are you?" texts while in the ER or oncology office. Pick one person to handle the group chats and updates. For me personally, because our network is massive between Kacey's career, friends from all over, and both of our families, I created a Facebook group where I post updates on. For my own sanity, I turned off the ability for others to make posts, and they can only comment on my posts (but if that is overwhelming, turn that off too!). 02 / Request Every Digital Record Ensure you have the login to the patient portal. You need digital access to the pathology reports and MRI scans immediately—do not wait for physical copies. 03 / The "Grab-and-Go" Bag Pack a bag with an extra-long phone charger, a heavy sweatshirt (hospitals are always freezing), snacks, an extra drink, and a notebook. Keep this by the door for every appointment. Ours also contains catheter supplies and anti-seizure medication. 04 / Verify Insurance/VA Navigation Call the nurse navigator or the VA coordinator to confirm that the pending specialist is in-network. This prevents a financial headache later. 05 / Clear the Calendar Cancel every non-essential meeting or social obligation for the next 7 days. Your only job right now is the "Scouting Report."

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Discover the Unfiltered Reserve vlog, a life blog offering raw, real-life stories. Dive into the Unfiltered Reserve vlog for genuine experiences. Life Unfiltered: "Unfiltered" Because my life doesn't have a filter, and neither do I. While my recommendations are carefully curated to be the best of the best, these 'Field Notes' are the raw, unedited reality of navigating caregiving, military life, and everything in between. Expect real talk, real mess, and zero apologies. Kacey's Journey: Our ask for help 09/2025 Answering questions and a little more to the story... Explaining the beginning of Kacey's journey while asking social media to make a dream come true for him (I no longer have the original so I can't slow it down to normal speed.) I had a lot of questions about the hotel incident and how Kacey got himself to the hospital after suffering a severe brain bleed alone in a hotel room for 2.5 days. Part 1 of the dream come true for Kacey Part 2 of the dream come true We made it to the 49ers/Buccs game! View all Danielle Unfiltered: Officially a college graduate! Getting my degree in Health Science and working in clinical healthcare has made navigating this road so much easier to understand. 3am thoughts. Late night reflections on being a caregiver happen more often than I'd like. Starting Invisalign soon! AHDH things. First week on Vyvanse View all Finding myself again after a year of forgetting I am a person.

The Playbook Chapter 3: The Special Teams Building the roster that supports the mission. From VA navigation to community 'battle buddies,' these are the plays for organizing your backup so you don't have to carry the weight alone. 01 . The Military Bridge (VA & Benefits) As a veteran family, the VA system is one of your most powerful but complex tools. Don't wait for them to find you. Reach out to a Caregiver Support Coordinator immediately to learn about stipends, respite care, and home modification grants. This isn't a handout; it’s a resource earned through service. Explore Benefits 02. The Support Huddle (Logistics) When people ask 'How can I help?', give them a specific play to run. Use tools like Meal Train or CaringBridge to manage the food, the house, and the updates. It reserves your energy for Kacey and keeps the 'outside world' organized without you having to send 50 individual texts a day. Set Up a Meal Train 03. Finding Your Battle Buddies Isolation is the enemy. Whether it’s through the Elizabeth Dole Foundation or specialized GBM support circles, find the people who speak your language. You need a Huddle that understands the overlap of military life and a medical crisis—people who don't need an explanation for why today is hard. Join the Huddle 04. The Financial Knockout (Keep Punching) When insurance says "no," we keep punching. This is the resource for the integrative care and quality-of-life tools that insurance often ignores. Patient Assistance Grants: You can request funding for the critical items insurance won't cover—like home modifications, specialized supplements, or out-of-pocket co-pays. Keep Punching provides grants up to $1,500 per patient to help bridge the financial gap. Professional Patient Navigators: Access FREE one-on-one support to help you navigate the medical maze. Keep Punching navigators help you coordinate care and manage the emotional and logistical hurdles of a new brain cancer diagnosis. "Punching Pals" Community: Don’t fight in a vacuum. Use their Caregiver Support program to connect with other "Punching Pals" who understand the specific grit required for this battle. Learn More 05. The Marine Corps Safety Net (Semper Fi & America’s Fund) Founded by military spouses who saw the need for bedside support, Semper Fi & America's Fund provides immediate financial assistance and lifetime support for combat wounded, critically ill, and catastrophically injured service members from all branches, with a special legacy of serving the Marine Corps. What they provide: Urgent Financial Grants: They offer needs-based financial assistance for pressing expenses during long hospitalizations, such as travel, lodging, childcare, and out-of-pocket medical costs. Lifetime Support: Their case managers work one-on-one with families to provide tailored support for as long as it is legitimately needed. Integrative Wellness: Programs focused on long-term health, including neurofitness for cognitive function and PTSD/TBI support. The "Unfiltered" Why: They are known for their incredibly fast turnaround—often delivering emergency assistance within 24-48 hours of an approved request. Actionable Step: Use the Semper Fi & America's Fund Donation portal to support other families, or visit the Semper Fi & America's Fund Home page to connect with a case manager if you are the one in need. Learn More

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Play 3: Welcome to the Team A letter from the Huddle. I know exactly where you are right now. You’re sitting in a chair that feels too small, in a room that feels too cold, feeling everything and nothing at once, staring at a roadmap that doesn't make any sense. Welcome to the team no one ever wanted to join. When Kacey was diagnosed, I spent my first 48 hours stumbling through the dark, trying to find tools that actually worked and advice that wasn't wrapped in toxic positivity. I created this 'Opening Drive' for you—the one who is currently overwhelmed, exhausted, emotionally spent, and wondering how you're going to survive the next hour, let alone the next year. This isn't a medical manual. It’s a collection of the first steps we took, the resources that saved our sanity, and the honest truths I wish someone had told me in the beginning. You don't have to figure this all out tonight. You don't have to be the perfect caregiver. You just have to be here. For now, take a breath, look through the checklist, and know that you’ve finally found a Huddle that actually understands. We’ve got the play-call ready. Let’s move. With grit and grace, Danielle Charlton